Methinks the problem of AI partners will expose the darkness of limerence.

Limerence is a state of mind characterized by intense, involuntary infatuation with another person, often accompanied by obsessive thoughts and fantasies, and a strong desire for reciprocation.

Here’s a more detailed breakdown:

• Obsessive Thoughts: Limerence involves persistent and intrusive thoughts about the other person, often involving idealized scenarios and fantasies about a relationship.
• Emotional Dependence: The individual’s feelings and self-worth become heavily reliant on the other person’s actions and perceived feelings towards them.
• Idealization: The limerent object is often placed on a pedestal, with their positive traits emphasized and negative ones overlooked.

How screwed up is it that in AI fantasies, the limerent object doesn’t exist!